Actually Scott, you're right as far as rallies go. California has made it really hard to permit real bike rallies, so most of what is in the calendar are poker runs and such. Same with Florida, they have lots of rides and runs and of course the big commercialized motorcycle events, but very few real bike rallies.
For multi-day real old school biker rallies Texas leads the way followed by North Carolina. They seam to know how to party and don't have that much of a problem getting permits to do so.
As for out west here, we are kind of screwed when it comes to rallies real old school biker rallies. We've got the Redwood Run (CA), Run 21 (OR), and Too Broke for Sturgis (AZ).
There are no Old School biker events in Virginia. The laws in this state are those made by the puritans and pilgrams. If you are a high dollar biker of the HOG chapters and want to risk a LEO confrontation there are parties in big cities and high dollar establishments/lodging. I ride to NC, MD or PA for nearby old school events and parties.